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| Vidya Balan |
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| Vidya Balan |
Bollywood actress Vidya Balan got wedded to Siddharth Roy
Kapur in 2013 and their marital life is going strong day by day. The couple is
often spotted going out for dates and parties together.
There were a lot of stories that their wedding has hit the
rock bottom numerous times, but Vidya squashed all the rumours and proved them
false.
In a chat with a famous tabloid, the actor talks about her
idea of a successful marriage and equality in the relationship.
Vidya revealed, "At the end of the day, a marriage of
any relationship is a partnership, so there has to be equality. Men aren't
accustomed to this idea, which is why women have to lure them into doing at
least some of the work before expecting them to do 5 percent. See, both
partners step out of the house to earn their livelihood but it's highly unfair
that after a long, hard day, the woman has to come back and do household chores.
Even if she has help at home, she still has to monitor, supervise and keep a
check on everything. So, men should contribute equally."
She was questioned that the stereotype that a man has to
work outside and woman has to take care of kids at home still persists and she responded.
"Yes, that's because of the deep conditioning that the mother is more
crucial to a child's upbringing than a father. But that's not true. I'm not a
psychologist, this is just my opinion. As the mother has borne the baby, she instinctively
doing that much more. Even if she has had a smooth pregnancy, once she delivers
the baby, she wants to spend time with the little one. However, she also needs
to get her energy back. No one ever talks about that. We forget that the woman
too needs a lot of care."
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