Collapsing marriages have become a reason to worry for all.
Even our Bollywood hasn't been spared and we'd been seeing a series of unsuccessful
marriages in the recent times. Kajol who's been blessedly settled in her
married life for nearly two decades and questioned her views on the same.
When we questioned Kajol as to what she thinks could be the
reason why a relationship is losing its spark, Kajol answered, "I think
we're losing tolerance (and no, it's not an intolerance remark btw) it's about
losing patience. We're just losing willingness to go that little bit far ahead
or to give people their second chance."
Kajol, who wedded actor Ajay Devgn after dating
for four years on 24th February, 1999 had once shared what keeps
their marriage intact. "I think our relationship has worked only
because I speak a lot and he quietly listens. So the secret to our happy
married life is that Ajay doesn't say much. And that we're best of
friends."
Lately spotted at an event, Kajol shared why she feels
there is so little room left for patience in a relationship. She
believes marriages today have become more or less a commodity and it's
less about the love you have for someone that can absolve every mistake and
more about pouncing on your partner when he commits a crime. "We don't
give any benefit of doubt to our partner anymore. Today, we're just
waiting for the person to make a mistake so that we can pounce on him and tell,
'hey now I am one up there. Now you see.' I think marriages and relationships
cannot be like that if they have to be successful!” she added.
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