Mumbai, India: In the demanding world of Bollywood, actors are constantly under the scanner, facing both adoration and intense criticism, often accompanied by relentless online trolling. For AbhishekBachchan, navigating this landscape has been a journey of self-discovery, significantly shaped by the wisdom of his wife, global icon Aishwarya RaiBachchan.
Abhishek recently opened up about his long-held desire to
please everyone and how Aishwarya's pragmatic advice has helped him deal with
the relentless negativity and online scrutiny, particularly amid recent
swirling rumors about their personal lives.
The Desire to Please and the Weight of Negativity
In a candid interview, Abhishek Bachchan admitted that he
still harbors the deeply ingrained desire to make everyone happy and seeks
universal approval for his work. "Yes," he affirmed when asked if
this idealistic trait persists. "Time teaches you that sometimes you can
be foolish. Don't be so idealistic. But I don't ever want to let go of that.
The day I say, 'I can't make everyone happy, this is me, take it or leave it,'
for a film actor, it's very arrogant, and it will be the death of you. There
will be no more desire to improve."
However, he acknowledged the human tendency to focus on the
negative. "But I still want to make everyone happy. I still pay attention
to all the negative reviews and anybody who says negative things. Sadly, as
human nature pays more attention to negativity than positivity."
Aishwarya's Sage Advice: "It's Water Off a Duck's
Back"
It is in these moments of grappling with criticism and
online trolls that Aishwarya Rai Bachchan's advice becomes his anchor.
Abhishek revealed her powerful perspective:
"And Aishwarya always said, 'It's water off a duck's
back. Why are you concentrating on the negative stuff? Concentrate on the
positive, that so much outweighs anything else.'"
This profound yet simple wisdom from Aishwarya emphasizes
the futility of dwelling on negativity and the importance of focusing on the
immense support and love that often overshadows the criticism. It’s a message
about self-preservation and maintaining one's peace of mind in the public eye.
Maintaining Dignity Amidst Speculation
The couple, who married in 2007 and are parents to their
daughter Aaradhya, have recently been the subject of unfounded rumors regarding
their relationship. While they have largely maintained a dignified silence,
choosing not to dignify baseless speculation, Abhishek's recent statements
subtly address the emotional toll such misinformation can take. He emphasized
that while earlier, comments about him didn't affect him, now with a family,
it's "very upsetting." He also highlighted that even clarifications often
get twisted, as "negative news sells."
Abhishek's approach, guided by Aishwarya's advice, appears
to be one of quiet strength and focus on what truly matters – his work, his
family, and his own conscience. His recent appearance in films like Housefull
5 and the upcoming Kaalidhar Laapata (streaming July 4 on Zee5)
showcase his continued dedication to his craft, rather than engaging in public
spats.
Aishwarya Rai Bachchan, herself a veteran of dealing with
intense public scrutiny, has clearly imparted invaluable lessons to her
husband. Their united front and individual strategies for handling the glare of
the spotlight serve as a testament to their strong bond and mature approach to
celebrity life.
In an industry where public perception can be
overwhelming, Abhishek Bachchan's candid sharing of Aishwarya's advice offers a
powerful reminder to prioritize mental well-being and focus on the positive,
echoing the sentiment: 'This is me, take it or leave it.'
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